|Year : 2020 | Volume
| Issue : 1 | Page : 53-58
Foreplay importance from the point of view of a sample of Egyptian women
Ihab Younis, Menha A Ibrahim, Doaa M El-Habbaq, Raghad K Farag
Dermatology and Andrology Department, Faculty of Medicine, Benha University, Egypt
|Date of Submission||24-Apr-2019|
|Date of Acceptance||30-Jun-2019|
|Date of Web Publication||6-Jan-2020|
6 Soria st, Mohandeseen, Giza, 12511
Source of Support: None, Conflict of Interest: None
Background Human beings engage in sexual intercourse not only for reproductive reasons but also for pleasure. So, it becomes important to study the effects of foreplay in facilitating sexual arousal as a means to increase the pleasurable aspects of sexual intercourse.
Aim To evaluate the importance of foreplay in a sample of Egyptian women and to assess sexual practices affected by foreplay.
Patients and methods The study was carried out on 200 married women with regular sexual practice using self-report questionnaires. The number of usable questionnaires was 200. Privacy was guaranteed for all the participants.
Results Most of the participants initiated foreplay in less than half of sexual encounters (44%). The most cited purpose for coitus was to obtain pleasure for both partners (54%). Overall, 33% of participants thought that their sexual life was unsatisfactory. Participants reporting that their husbands were interested in foreplay during love making comprised 72% of the whole sample. Half of the couples do foreplay almost every time of sexual intercourse (50%), and 51% reported that they play an active role in foreplay. Caressing is preferred by most of the participants (33%) followed by kissing (25%). Most of the participants could not obtain orgasm during foreplay (53%). Most of the participants reported that their husbands stimulate their clitoris during foreplay (64%), and 37% of them liked that their husbands stimulate their genitalia orally.
Conclusion This study has the potential to provide alternate ways through which the sexual experience can be enjoyed. Foreplay has a very important role in sexual life, as it strongly affects sexual desire, arousal, and orgasm. Ignorance of the importance of its role may have a negative effect on sexual activity and the overall sexual satisfaction.
Keywords: Egyptian, foreplay, women
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Younis I, Ibrahim MA, El-Habbaq DM, Farag RK. Foreplay importance from the point of view of a sample of Egyptian women. Egypt J Dermatol Venerol 2020;40:53-8
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Younis I, Ibrahim MA, El-Habbaq DM, Farag RK. Foreplay importance from the point of view of a sample of Egyptian women. Egypt J Dermatol Venerol [serial online] 2020 [cited 2022 Oct 1];40:53-8. Available from: http://www.ejdv.eg.net/text.asp?2020/40/1/53/275176
| Introduction|| |
Foreplay is the name for a number of things people do before they have sex. These things do not need to be directly related to having sex, rather they are done to sexually arouse people and to make them want each other more. Not all of these acts are physical, some can also be psychological .
Foreplay is a behavioral pattern that demonstrates great variability around the world. Broude and Greene  coded the presence or absence of foreplay in 39 societies (including Egypt) and found that only 53.8% of theses societies exhibited sexual patterns in which foreplay was an important component. Moreover, Clellan and Beach  in their classic book ‘Patterns of sexual behavior’ mentioned that the Indian ethnic groups ‘Lepcha’ and the ‘Kwomra’ as two societies where foreplay is minimal and little contact takes place between partners before and even during intromission. At the other extreme, they cite the case of the people of Ponape (a Pacific island), where foreplay may last for hours before intercourse occurs.
In both sexes, sexual satisfaction with vaginal intercourse as well as kissing and petting was positively associated with relationship satisfaction .
‘Chemical foreplay’ is a term suggested by Belcastro and Nicholson  to describe the use of marijuana and alcohol by some cultures before coitus to enhance and culminate coital episode. They tested this idea in a group of university students and found that white females who used alcohol and marijuana before coitus had a sexual behavior profile that was in sharp contrast to those women who did not use these drugs before coitus.
Women always desire longer duration of foreplay and intercourse, whereas men desire a significantly shorter duration of foreplay and intercourse than women want .
As foreplay is an important component of the sexual act, this work aimed to study different aspects of foreplay and its importance in a sample of Egyptian women.
| Participants and methods|| |
This is a cross-sectional study that included 200 sexually active married women. They were free from diseases known to affect sexual function and able to read and write to be able to fill the questionnaire independently.
Before proceeding with this study, an approval was obtained from the Department of Dermatology and Andrology and the Ethics Committee, Faculty of Medicine, Benha University.
The tool used in this study was a self-report questionnaire written in English and translated into Arabic. The questionnaire included 28 items designed by the investigators. Some items were selected from the female sexual function index .
The questionnaire included the following items: demographic data, for example, age and educational level (reads and writes, finished secondary school, or has a university degree); assessment of female sexual functions, for example, coital frequency, initiating coitus, orgasm, sexual satisfaction, and information about foreplay; and also interest in foreplay and its rate, presence of extragenital erogenous zones, and the degree of arousal that they give were assessed.
The statistical analysis was conducted using STATA version 11 (STATA Corporation, College Station, Texas, USA). Comparisons between the different groups of the studied sample were carried out using simple univariate tests: the test of proportion (Z-test) to compare two proportions and the χ2-test and the Fisher’s exact test to compare more than two proportions as appropriate. A P value less than 0.05 was considered statistically significant, and a P value less than 0.001 was considered statistically highly significant.
| Results|| |
Most of the participants belonged to age group 20–29 years (36.5%). Moreover, most of them had a university degree (58%). The most common duration of marriage was 5 years (32.7%), and most women (66.5%) were exposed to genital mutilation/cutting ([Table 1]).
The most common coital frequency was 2–3 times per week (60%), and most women found this frequency suitable (60%). Most participants initiated foreplay in less than half of sexual encounters (44%). The most cited purpose for coitus was to obtain pleasure for both partners (54%). Overall, 56% of women never masturbated and 33% of them thought that their sexual life was unsatisfactory ([Table 2]).
Most of the participants reported that their husbands were interested in foreplay during love making (72%). Half of couples do foreplay almost every time of sexual intercourse. Most of the participants (51%) reported that they play an active role in foreplay. The most preferred action in foreplay was caressing (33%) followed by kissing (25%). Most of the participants could not obtain orgasm during foreplay (53%). Only 42% of participants’ husbands do flirting during daily life. Almost half of participants (46.5%) admitted that absence of foreplay affects their marital relation ([Table 3]).
Breasts were the most sensitive extragenital erogenous zone for most of participants (54%). Most of the participants reported that their husbands stimulate their clitoris during foreplay (64%), and 37% of them liked that their husbands stimulate their genitalia orally ([Table 4]).
Interest in foreplay by participants’ husbands decreased with age. The difference was statistically highly significant. Having an active role during foreplay was inversely proportional to women’s age, and the same observation was found regarding ability to reach orgasm during foreplay ([Table 5]).
Husbands of women with marriage duration of more than 15 years seemed less interested in foreplay during coitus than those married for less than 5 years. Obtaining orgasm during foreplay was inversely proportional to duration of marriage (24% for women>15 years after marriage vs. 59.4% for those<5 years of marriage; [Table 6]).
| Discussion|| |
This study addresses the importance of foreplay for women, clarifies the nature of sexual satisfaction, and considers the relationship between sexual and relationship satisfaction. Most of the participants (51%) reported that they play an active role in foreplay, and 72% of them reported that their husbands were interested in foreplay during love making. In agreement with these results is a study done by Millers and Byers  on 152 heterosexual couples that reported their actual and ideal duration of foreplay and intercourse, as well as their perceptions of their partners’ desired duration of foreplay and intercourse. Furthermore, participants reported the duration of foreplay and intercourse that they felt most men and women wanted. Ideal length of foreplay did not differ for men and women. However, men reported a significantly longer ideal duration of intercourse than did their partners. The ideal duration of foreplay and intercourse was significantly longer than the actual duration for both sex. Women and not men significantly underestimated their partners’ desired duration of foreplay and intercourse.
A shorter than required foreplay is a common complaint from women. Among 5665 Japanese women, 43.5% desired a longer duration . Similar findings were obtained by Hisasue et al. . In Egypt, Younis et al.  found that 20.7% of women fail to reach orgasm because of the short duration of foreplay.
Most of our participants (53%) could not obtain orgasm during foreplay. As for the sequence of foreplay, penetration, and intercourse followed by male orgasm, this might take too short time to give enough chance for women to reach orgasm. Female orgasm is almost always under the control of the male partner. In agreement with this result is a study on a sample of the Czech population, where 2360 women reported their ability to reach orgasm with their partners (from ‘never’ to ‘almost every time’). The study concluded that reaching orgasm is associated with penile–vaginal intercourse duration but not with foreplay duration .
Overall, 60% of our participants accepted when their husbands asked to orally stimulate their clitoris, and most of them (62.2%) said that their husbands wanted them to stimulate the penis by mouth. Other researchers suggested that women were less interested in receiving and giving oral sex than men ,.
The breasts and nipples were the most common erogenous zones as 54% of our participants reported high arousal by breasts/nipples stimulation. This confirms the results of Younis et al. , who found that extragenital areas that gave the highest exciting effect when stimulated were the breasts and nipples, followed by the lips, the neck and the nape of the neck, the ears, and the buttocks (84.6, 83.9, 75.5, 55.2, and 36.4%, respectively). Similar results were also obtained by Nummenmaa et al. .
Areas neighboring the genitalia (the buttocks, inner thighs, lower abdomen, and the pubis) would be higher in their ability to respond to tactile stimulation and thus are found to facilitate sexual arousal more than areas farther away ,.
Overall, 33% of our participants thought that their sexual life was unsatisfactory. Moreover, the overall unsatisfaction with sexual life increases with advance in age (25%for age group<20 years vs. 61.9% for age group<40 years). The same was noted by Laumann et al.  who found that there is a decrease in women’s satisfaction with their sexual behavior with increasing age.
It was observed that marital duration is indirectly proportional to some sexual activities such as coital frequency, interest in foreplay, and orgasm. The same result was obtained by Durr  who confirmed that sexual desire in a relationship seems to diminish over time, possibly as a result of emotional merging, habituation, or boredom, or all three. Poor sexual techniques or unrealistic expectations of sexual skills may also lead to disappointment. This is also in agreement with Westheimer and Lopater  who reported that marital duration affects various aspects of a couple’s relationship, including levels of emotional intimacy and time, which can result in boredom with sexual activities. They also noted the negative effect of habituation on the sexual activities in long-term relationships.
The number of women who participated in this work was small, which makes the results difficult to be generalized. In addition, illiterate women were excluded from the study, which limits the ability of the sample to be representative.
| Conclusion|| |
This study has the potential to provide alternate ways through which the sexual experience can be enjoyed. Foreplay has a very important role in sexual lives as it strongly affects sexual desire, arousal, and orgasm. Ignorance of the importance of its role may have a negative effect on sexual activity and the overall satisfaction of sexual lives.
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